Friday, June 27, 2014

Homecoming

Four score minus seventy five years ago, the Saraffs descended from the airplane, landing in Delhi, immediately hit by the sweltering heat of the city.
That was June 27, 2009. After five years in India (which was celebrated with moong dal, Nutrela, and a broken RO system), we have come an amazingly long way. In fact, the whole US part of my life feels like a dream, it has become an unavoidable fact about me, an inevitable truth, but at the same time, it's about as hazy as the fogged mirror that is a result of long, hot, often melodic showers.
But this half decade journey wasn't just about us, it was also about India. My parents returning here after fourteen years, and my brother and I coming to live here for the first time.
Moving from the US to Gurgaon, and finally to Bangalore, I feel like I'm fitting in more and more. Even when I moved to Delhi, there was something comforting in knowing that I was with my fellow Indians, people of my own country and blood. And after coming to Bangalore, I finally experienced the thrill of living in a place where the people speak your mother tongue (even if you barely know it yourself).
Now what can I say about India? It's a mosaic - there are too many people, and too much poverty, and crime, and corruption, and beauty. People are modest, they work hard. And the best thing about living in Bangalore (apart from the whole Kannada-speaking thing) is the diversity. In fact all cities are diverse. There are people from Maharashtra, UP, Delhi, Gujarat. I love that in one classroom, you have people who speak different languages and celebrate different festivals and still, they can all come together and can support RCB (and love Virat Kohli).
I have thought about this a hundred times, and written about it even more - culture, language, travel. But the thing about me is that once a thing fascinates me, it continues to do so for a long time, and I have a feeling I will always be fascinated by India.
India, I am proud to call you mine, and even prouder to say that I'm yours.


Friday, June 20, 2014

It happened one morning...

All I want to do is rest,
But my sleep's been put to the test,
Whenever I try to sleep, there's too much noise.

Just when I'm about to doze,
Just when my eyelids close,
There is a sudden crash or a loud voice.

The door is creaking.
Is the faucet leaking?
I'm once again up in a snap.

The phone is ringing,
My daughter's singing,
Now I'll never be able to take this nap.

The phone has been answered,
Hubby says, 'The files were transferred.'
And then there's another resounding crash!

"Jeez guys, what have you done?
Now we'll have to make another one,
Quick now put that in the trash!"

I can hear my son yelping,
Do they need someone helping?
I know that they're going to give me a surprise.

Something starts beeping,
And while my heart is leaping,
I once again try to close my eyes.

Something goes BINGA-BONG-BONG,
That's when I know that something's wrong,
I just can't stand it anymore.

Just when I'm about to rise,
I hear shushes, I hear cries,
And my husband and children burst through the door.

My children sing, 'Happy Mother's Day'
While my husband hands me the tray,
There's coffee, my favorite muffin and some toast.

"Mom, it's not much, but look,
we (they exchange glances) can't really cook.
We just want you to know we love you the most!"

'I know', I think, and I'm all smiles,
I won't be angry for a really long while,
But why does my hubby keep throwing glances at me?

"Mom, you're so happy, stay like this a bit longer,
We thought things would be OK, we couldn't have been wronger,
Something's really gone wrong in the kitchen, you see..."